sometimes in the editing -- they like to list all of carl reiner's friends that our wedding. tavis: is there a secret to ending a hollywood relationship like yours and rob's and remaining friends afterward? like you can call him with questions when you are writing your book? >> i stay in a relationship way past when it is over, to make sure. i want to make sure it is over. >> he was just going through his thing and i was still working. there is not been any animosity, i would not say. i don't like confrontation. he quit all in the family. but we did not find, really. tavis: what day be the nerve to think that you could move beyond acting to become a great director? >> i did not ask them, they asked me. i did not not on anyone's door. they called me and asked me if i wanted to direct. i said not really. we did not have video hookups, either. my father said it is a strange business. they pay you to learn. so i gave it a shot. and then someone handed me another script, then another one. i wanted to do awakenings. my mother had alzheimer's. i wondered if she could hear. you treat